FR: 22/23rd February '08 [nightgame]

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I like to write my mentalities to go out with so I know what I should be thinking.

Here's what I got:

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306 – Chat to girls -- 306 because I have 306 posts on the RSD forum.

NIGHTGAME

Ok here’s how it went.

In 4^th Avenue (our local bar/club, name changed for privacy).

HB_Cute_Neutral. (1 approach)

It’s a friend of a friend and I’ve never spoken to her. This girl is so cute. Her eyes are gorgeous. She was dancing near me and I saw her looking at me a couple of times I think so I opened her and said “you’re so cute, I just had to tell you”. I lead her over to get a photo. She’s open and receptive yet very neutral. I asked her if she gets guys saying that all the time, just for my curiosity. She said yes, not good. Whatever, got the approach done.

HB_Boobs (half an approach)

A girl walking down the hall bit says “ohh my boobs” to her friend but pretty loudly so as a guy I turned around like *did someone say boobs*, I didn’t say this. She noticed, I turn back around walking back, she says I’m not allowed to do that in a kind of flirty way. As we’re walking I come back with, “what you gonna do, spank me”.. She says she’ll batter me (what the fuck, hah). I say “you probably would as well”. I realise after it wasn’t that good of a response. I meant it like ‘you’re the type of girl who’d batter someone ‘cause you don’t know how to flirt properly’ in a jokey way but it can be taken both ways (ooh matron!). She ends up saying “I have a boyfriend” as I walk off and laugh, I thought it interesting how she brought the b/f up when I didn’t mention anything.

HB_Ginga (half an approach)

I guessed her name right, it was a 50/50 chance because she has a twin. This is basically a warm approach, I don’t like counting this but I counted it as HALF an approach and combined with HB_Boobs, I guess it’s 1. I try saying something about good guess. She’s a bit cold on me but she was staring for me to come approach, I think. One good thing about this was I lead her to get a picture with me, social proof boost I don’t know if she wanted it or not. She was on her own for a while so I opened her.

My buddy Cory was being a dick as expected, he just tells everyone to fuck off and gives them the Vs. Although he was slapping girls asses and getting everyone reacting to him which is interesting and something to learn from. A few girls seemed to enjoy it as well. DJ was telling him to calm down and the bouncer had a word with him. He was being a prick and I ignored him several times. He’s barred for a while. Spoke to him after and he regrets it, lol he’s going to cut down, hopefully. He can open girls when he’s drunk but that’s it. He wont open sober. He’s a good mate when he’s not pissed out his head. His strong point is that he doesn’t care that much and demonstrates this. Mine is that I am more understanding but both can be seen as weak and strong.

Unlike many other times, I didn’t get pissed off with myself. I walked home kind of neutral but glad I got approaches done. I danced most of the night away by myself with Joe (Shyish) and Jack (Fun alpha guy) who are in my social circle.

SATURDAY

Self-amusement.

I went to 4^th Ave and my mate was supposed to meet me. It was packed as hell and so early, I couldn’t believe how busy it was. Cory wasn’t there, I was by my self feeling a bit out of place and my voice wasn’t projecting well at the bar, it was loud as fuck. I spoke to Kyle who I know vaguely. Stood by bar on his own so I go near him. He is a bit creepy, there was a point when I shout his name and snaps his head around fast, slow down your movements guys. We spoke a bit. HB_EX came right near me at the bar facing away, I wasn’t going to talk to her because we hadn’t spoke the past couple of times, . I did some body rocking like as if I was about to go. I had a KNOWING SMIRK on my face thinking she’d talk to me. We kind of looked at each other at the same time. She said “hey Travis!” we hugged. I say “are you not ignoring me now” playfully. I realised, not the best response but whatever. I ask her if she got her car, she says a bit about it. Cool. She says see you later. I text her later and she’s like “who’s this”, I did text her back at the end of the night but I’m not going to bother responding to that anymore. Our buddy Ryan came over, I cut thread – “STEVE!!!”. Grabbed the attention, riffed about Cory for a bit (about last night). Cory phones me, I find out Cory is barred from there because of last night, bastard. I tell those guys I’m off, laters. We go to some other venues… for a change.

We Go to some small place, pretty busy (I’ll call it Govz). Me and Cory grab drinks and go over to one place being wallflowers. Some girls come near me and Cory. Girl stands right near me

HB_NeutralBrunette (1 approach)

OH I WONDER IF SHE WANTS ME TO CHAT HER UP. OF COURSE SHE DOES. SHE’S STOOD NEAR ME AND ALL OF HER FRIENDS ARE ON THE OTHER SIDE. It was weird how they just came over like that, I was thinking what the fuck is going on here. I ask her if upstairs is a toilet or dance floor. I think I see her checking me out a couple of times, I believe in my head she’s attracted and still think she was but I’ll open and she’ll be pretty boring. I know I’ve seen her somewhere before but I don’t mention it because it seems to show too much interest or sounds like some line to me. I do talk to her a bit but she’s kind of shy, neutral and boring. I should have talked to her friends, I bet she wouldn’t have been so boring then. I realised this after. I have to work on opening groups of girls, get a bit of competition between them and social proof. Social proof is massive.

We check the place out, chode about again by ourselves and then go to another place.

We get to this other place we’ll call Davez.

I speak to Jane and Samantha when they arrive. We’re at different tables. I know Jane is attracted to me, she’s persistent. Her friend Sam is quite cute. Jane texts me while I’m with Cory saying we look lonely (which we were) so I text them back saying to come over then. She sends one back saying why so I say because we’re lonely. They’re going some place in town. I don’t really want to go with them, maybe we should have.

Sam felt a bit uncomfortable (she doesn’t really know us that well) but she was cool after a while, I said “are you Sam” then Jane kept talking to us and that and Sam started joining in. Sam was quite cool. We saw a celeb’, they didn’t notice him so when I pointed him out, they started screaming and I found that hilarious. I told them to go chat him up. It would have been interesting to see that. We talked a bit and it was cool, conversation flowing normally, not pissed hah. They try getting us to go town, we don’t end up going. We get photos of each other, do silly poses and I talk a bit and I’ve got rapport with Jane. Cool.

We go back to Govz and that HB-NeutralBrunette is there again. Me ‘n Cory sit down and this girl sits next to me, I think I talk to her again but I am not one for plowing in conversation so I stop and look away. Cory looks at me like “what’s he gonna do”. I noticed and smirk. When I look away and stop trying.. She her arm over me. Weird. Maybe she’s using me to get some guy jealous or something, he starts talking to her.

Even though we have next to zero social proof, I see girls checking me out a lot that night. I’ve realised looks are more important that I thought they were.

Quite a realisation lately is wear a cool pair of shoes, jeans and a shirt. Check out my fashion post.

So 303 approaches to go, girls only and COLD APPROACHES. Seems impossible to me but I’m doing it anyway, no excuses. I’m loving this blog thing as well.

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